How to Plan the Best Friendsgiving This Year

Friendsgiving season is officially here—which means stretchy pants, wine-stained laughs, and that one friend who insists on bringing “their” mashed potatoes (even though they’re just instant with truffle oil).

Whether you’re hosting for the first time or the fifth, this year’s Friendsgiving doesn’t need to be complicated. With a little planning (and a few Partytrick templates), you can throw a celebration that’s equal parts stress-free and stunning.

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Step 1: Set the vibe.

Before you plan the menu or buy the turkey, decide what kind of energy you want your Friendsgiving to have.

Are you envisioning a cozy candlelit dinner with slow jams and linen napkins? A potluck-style picnic with mismatched plates and sparkling cider? Or maybe a Friendsgiving brunch complete with cinnamon rolls and mimosas?

✨ Partytrick tip: Start with our Friendsgiving template (or build your own!) for everything from table inspo to playlists that keep the gravy train rolling.

Step 2: Make it a potluck, but with purpose.

There’s no reason to shoulder the full feast yourself. Friendsgiving is all about collaboration (and bragging rights for whoever makes the best pie).

Start by creating a simple shared menu—something balanced but realistic. Think: one protein, two or three sides, one salad, a couple of desserts, and plenty of wine. Encourage guests to bring their “signature” dish, or let your friend who can’t cook handle the drinks or a store-bought dessert.

Step 3: Style the table—simply.

You don’t need a designer’s touch or a bottomless budget to make your table look amazing. The goal is cozy, not chaotic.

Start with a neutral base—think linen or cotton tablecloths in beige, sage, or rust. Add layers: mismatched dinnerware, textured napkins, and candles of varying heights. A few small pumpkins, eucalyptus sprigs, or dried citrus slices can instantly elevate your setup.

Step 4: Set the soundtrack.

Music can make or break the vibe. You want something that builds as the night goes on—soft and nostalgic for dinner, upbeat and danceable once dessert hits.

Think: Maggie Rogers, Fleetwood Mac, Leon Bridges, SZA, Harry Styles. A little something for everyone, and the perfect backdrop for second servings and spontaneous sing-alongs.

✨ Partytrick tip: Check out our Classic Thanksgiving playlist on spotify for curated song lists that match your mood. Whether you’re going for “chill and cozy” or “post-dinner dance party,” we’ve got you covered.

Step 5: Add those small, special touches.

It’s the little things that take a dinner from “fun” to unforgettable.

Try setting up a gratitude jar for guests to drop in notes of appreciation, or a photo corner with a disposable camera and a simple backdrop (you’ll thank yourself later). Handwritten place cards or personalized favors—like mini candles or homemade treats—go a long way.

Partytrick tip: Sign up for a free Partytrick account to access our holiday hosting templates, decor inspo, playlists, and stress-free hosting guides. You’ll have everything you need to host confidently and actually enjoy your own party.

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