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Host How I Host: Brianne Manz on Decor-First Hosting and Making Time for Your Guests

Host How I Host: Brianne Manz on Decor-First Hosting and Making Time for Your Guests

Brianne Manz knows a celebration can look beautiful and still leave room for dancing.
The NYC-based creator, entrepreneur, and mom of three teenagers is the founder of Stroller in the City, where she shares fashion, family travel, entertaining, and city life. Her work has been featured in New York Family, on The Today Show, and in People, among other outlets. When she hosts, she brings that same mix of style and real-life perspective: start with a reason to gather, make the room feel special, and finish early enough to join the fun.
Hosting Q&A with Brianne Manz
Q: Where do you start when planning a gathering at home?
A: For me, it always starts with the occasion. I need to know what we’re celebrating and the vibe I want people to feel. Then I go straight to the decor—the tablescape, flowers, lighting, and little details that make the room feel special. The menu comes next, and the theme usually comes together along the way.

Q: What are your favorite ways to break the ice?
A: I love anything that gets people mingling naturally, like great music and a signature cocktail. Depending on the party, I also like something interactive: a DIY station, flower arranging, or a photo moment that gives guests something to do and talk about. Dancing is always fun, too!
Q: What would you focus on for a dinner-party tablescape with a limited budget?
A: For me, it’s always a floral centerpiece. I’ve created beautiful centerpieces with flowers purchased from the supermarket.
Q: What advice would you give someone who feels overwhelmed by hosting?
A: Plan ahead and make lists. Break everything into manageable pieces so you’re not trying to do it all at once. I like to make a timeline that covers the menu, shopping, decor, and getting the house ready.

Q: What’s your signature drink?
A: A spicy margarita. It’s a crowd-pleaser with fresh lime, a little heat, and a Tajín rim. I like making it in a pitcher, which means less time behind the bar and more time enjoying my guests.
Q: What’s on your dinner-party soundtrack?
A: I always start with French music—think Benetti House Bar vibes and Carla Bruni—to bring a Parisian feel while everyone settles in. As the night goes on, I turn up the tempo and transition into upbeat dance music. French chic to full-on dancing by the end of the night!
Q: What’s your favorite hosting trick?
A: Do as much as you can ahead of time. Set the table, prep the food, chill the drinks, and have the playlist ready before guests arrive. I want to be ready to open the door and enjoy the party with everyone else, not run around at the last minute.

Q: What’s one of your most memorable gatherings?
A: A summer clambake on the beach, complete with a bonfire. It’s such a great way to bring adults and kids together. The night always ends with s’mores, of course!
Q: Which products do you love using when you host?
A: I adore my LoveShackFancy x Pottery Barn china. It has a pink floral print that’s so my vibe. I also cook everything in my Caraway cookware.

Q: What do you love about Partytrick?
A: It’s the kind of inspiration that makes you want to start planning your next party immediately!
Partytrick Take: Real Hosting Takeaways
Brianne’s approach connects the visual side of hosting with the practical work that lets her enjoy it. The flowers and lighting establish the mood; the timeline, pitcher drinks, and advance prep help her stay part of the gathering.
How can I recreate this hosting style in a simple way?
Start with her floral focal point. Pick up supermarket flowers and arrange them in a vase you already own, letting their colors guide the rest of the table details.
Then keep the supporting work manageable: choose a menu you’re comfortable preparing, make one pitcher cocktail, and have your music ready. You don’t need to add every idea from Brianne’s hosting repertoire to capture her approach.
Want a timeline like hers? Partytrick keeps your date, to-dos, and guest list in one place.
What is the most important planning decision behind this gathering?
The core priority is to finish enough before guests arrive so the host can participate.
For your own dinner party, that could mean setting the table early, keeping drinks within easy reach, and choosing food that requires minimal last-minute preparation. Leave space for guests to mingle around a shared activity, and prepare a playlist that moves from arrival music to a livelier pace. These choices give the evening direction without requiring you to manage every moment.
What can hosts borrow from this approach for their own event?
- Write a short prep timeline. Separate what you can do ahead from what needs attention just before guests arrive.
- Put your decorating budget toward one focal point. Start with flowers rather than buying a full set of new table accessories.
- Batch your signature drink. Have the pitcher, glasses, and garnishes ready so serving doesn’t keep pulling you away.
- Choose one way to encourage mingling. Try flower arranging or a simple photo spot if it suits your guests and the occasion.
Bring Florals and French Flair to Your Next Gathering
Flower-filled tables. A French dinner-party soundtrack. A gathering that looks effortless because the work happened ahead of time. Want to try Brianne’s style yourself? Start with the High Tea or French Cafe Bridal Brunch Playbook. Each comes with a timeline, hosting tips, and shoppable details you can customize, so you can prep ahead and actually enjoy your guests. Playbooks are free with a Partytrick account.
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Find Brianne on Stroller in the City, Instagram, and TikTok.
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